It is on every grownups responsibility to tell their children, that all men from third countries are potential molesters. Not because that you want to generalize, but because of the values third countries have, which are radically different than in western world.
In this countries where ”refugees” are coming to Europe, the situation of girls and women are horrible. Girl is on a lower level than a dog. Parents are selling their girls to marriages at very young age. Education or working is out of the question. Women are veiled.
Difference to the western world is enormous. Comers can be seen as well ”acculturated” men, but the values of their homelands stay back on their minds and they live according to these values.
Every parent should teach few simple basic things to their children:
– Never make any contact to these asylum seekers and do not response when they try to contact you. If these men try to contact thru private message for example in Facebook, you should not reply with any kind. Sender of the message should be blocked straight away.
– If someone tries to talk to you in public space, you should not engage to any discussion.
Do not look in their eyes and don’t smile to these men, try to leave. If situation is getting scary ask help from Finnish men and tell that asylum seeker is bugging you and won’t leave.
– These asylum seekers are clever predators and they may approach you with request for help and to get you engage to talks with them. Keep in mind that they don’t need little girls help.
– If refugee tries to make an eye contact in the bus for example, do not reply by looking back to him. Put your headset back on and ignore him. If refugee comes close and tries to come to ”skin”, you should ask help from people around you. Young women should not say fuck off by themselves to these predators. This offences this men coming from the honor culture, they can beat up the girl in the anger even in the public space.
It’s very important for young girls to understand this matter. Men from third countries sees these European little girls as whores, because they are not using veil and they got to move freely.
Basic things are very simple. Don’t answer or react to these contact attempts from asylum seekers, don’t look them in to eyes and do not smile, no matter what.